Yes I do believe its time for an update stat…
Okay ummmm…
I’m in a new relationship with someone who I can really connect with I didn’t think I would have been in a another one so soon after the last. Truth be told I had waited a while for this one to really happen for not only me but for her as well so I’m kinda happy there is someone who I can talk about and do things with.
I’m not sure if I had spoken about my job but I’m still here at this lousy position. I can hear it already …
“What is it this time?”
I can only blame myself for all of this madness that’s going on in my life. I think if I didn’t agree to this position I wouldn’t be where I’m at right now Its my own fault which I have to except it and deal with whatever happens..
I’m keeping myself out if drama at least I’m trying very hard and not lose my cool with those around me even with my co-workers even though they have been at times the absolutely the cause if it.
Other than that nothing else has changed really that I know of and its good to be able to let my thoughts come on the screen than on paper..

Censorship I guess…

As I was looking into my Facebook page I had posted something that I thought was good enough to have on there for the world to see. Unfortunately it was clear to me that one little word has put that post into a place where it wasnt deemed fit for everyone to see. I had thought to myself about this and the only thing I saw was off was that single word hash tagged was a big issue I mean its part of a females anatomy and for the most part at some point we were fed by or from it as a child so why should the word tit or titties should be censored I mean to me it wasnt that bad of a word now is it?…
We as people have been fed by it or drank the milk from it through a bottle at one point in life so why is that word being considered to perceived as a naughty or taboo word. Doesnt this account for something I mean yes in some contact the word could be used as naughty and a bit racy but we are in 2014 things of this magnitude shouldn’t be looked as bad thing also been seen as a point of censorship to those who use this or any words for that matter.
I have seen many use that or something similar to that word and they dont get their posts unseen like what have I done wrong while they get to use it so freely. Mind you Im not jealous or anything like that but wouldnt you think about the situation as a whole rather than being a part from something….
Im not sure maybe all this was just the way I had used it incorrectly who knows but at some point this to me seems like censorship at its best (worst) in my opinion…

Just a thought..

As I sit here waiting for my time to end at this job, I wonder about how my life would have been if I had listened to what everyone had their “Best Interest” in mind for me.
I think the logical thinking would be why should I listen to them when they themselves haven’t made a bit of difference. Now before anyone gets defensive just hear me out first.
If I had listened to my friends I would have been hustling in some corner claiming to be “holding the block” as it were which with my talents I would have been owning it not holding onto a slab of concrete.
If I had listened to my mom I would have accomplished so much more than she has in her lifetime but sadly the lack of focus lost as a child and the imagination that was being put to use was dwindling faster than a paid fight.
If I had listened to the teachers who tried so hard on putting their best efforts on me to be the best I could have been maybe I could have gotten far unless you lived between the years of 80s and 90s it was pretty hard to focus on things knowing that it was “Pass on to the next grade” kind of option with each student not how the academic teaching is done today which by the way have you seen these kids homework now its like you must obtain a degree to understand half of what is there in the first place…But I digress..
See if I had listened that would have been meant that I wasnt pursuing what I wanted out of my own life not what everyone had their thoughts on what was best for me. This is the life Im leading regardless on the ensuring outcome. Now when anyone decides on what I should do I say “I’ll look into it” so their input was taken with some consideration…

Im still thinking….

I had a conversation with a female who I wasnt even sure she wanted anything to do with me.
We went into detail about the argument that was like some time and Im not sure why exactly she wanted to revisit that but in a calm way I told her why it happened and why something like this was needed to see where we were.
Granted we were just friends who occasionally hook up from time but it wasnt the whole mindset that didnt get to me as much as it should but the fact that she would return to the night in question.
I had felt like telling her:
Its not worth all of the aggravation that was being shown by both sides plus the way I was seeing it was more of a “FWB” kind of relationship…
I would have been totally honest with her then and there but something told me not to because she has gone through so much personal situations I rather spare the argument and just see where this would go.
I guess I have a soft spot for her maybe thats why I havent given up on her or having the absolute joy of taking her down a peg maybe thats the “Moment of Clarity” or just having to go through an argument which at this point Im not in for exactly.
The sheer thought of a provoked verbal fight wasnt in the cards for me because its best to tread lightly when someone of her caliber is around.
I’m not saying it’s all bad I just feel as if things would have been fine if something better should have came along before she did. Really I wish there was something that can ease things between us besides the physical aspects of the relationship. I’m thinking about coming clean but if that was to happen I seriously wouldnt know what would happen. I might as well come clean its not the worst idea I had in a while…..


This is the very first post for me on tumblr and Im kinda nervous actually I mean I never had ever thought of doing something like this before…
Wait ..
Thats not true I have thought about having a Tumblr account but really never came through on the idea until I was on Facebook and one of my friends mentioned being on here. I was a bit skeptical about the whole blogging thing when it hit me…
“Why not if I dont do this I know I’m going to regret not doing it at all”…
I took the long drop into the dark abyss not knowing what will await me on the way down.
Its way different from what I had assumed it was because its much more than I had realized. For me to vent out or add my thoughts on my own Tumblr without the fear of being ridiculed for what I may put here is nothing compared to what other social sites my suggest. I for one am glad that the jump was worth it.